It’s not that we’re antisocial; it’s just that sometimes we prefer to sit something out. We’re not mad—or sad, either! But it can be hard to assure your pals that it’s not personal; you just need a night in with your bed, a few candles, and some music. If you’re nodding your head in agreement, read on—you’ll surely recognize these. For all you social butterflies out there, your homebody homeboy or girl will surely appreciate your newfound understanding.